Been feeling lousy. A friend's son went home to the Lord.

I questioned myself...when does God say it's time? When does He decide that "Okay...this child is going to come home to me?" Does He ever think about how much the parents will hurt?

Then again...I pondered...was it because my friend said she's tired and need a break that's why God decided to take the child home? If so...then I'm afraid to tell Him I'm tired.